"he said i am not allowed to be friends with good looking guys"

I have grown up away from Pakistan, in another country. country's name- unnecessary.
Living here has actually helped my case more than it would have if i were to live with my relatives back in Pakistan or US.
Away from all those preying eyes of cousins and family, my parents have been a bit relax on what i do and how i bring myself out and up. I have the sort of independence that would probably be frown upon by alot of aunties and uncles, even those who live in such chilled out place such as US.
Thank god for secrets, lies and limited profile on Facebook, otherwise I wouldn't have that bit of life that i actually have.
I try to not lie to my parents. Like about who I am going out with or what I am going out to do. 
Thou, today, I had a major fight with them cause i told them i was going out with 3 guys for a day out in the bloody mall. I think the issue was that it was in a mall. Otherwise, it would have been fine.
This it what happens before or after i go out with whoever, just cause i am a girl. FIGHTS! Another issue causing that.Gender.
But leave that for another post. 
Anyways, so of course, i went to the mall easy but then when i came back, i came back to an angry dad, whose first words were how would it look if a girl was hanging out with 2 guys to any aunty or uncle who saw.!!!
God. they are the freaky queens and kings of gossip.Pakistanis.. who gives a crap.. you dont think ur sons and daughters do it too these days. Pleaseee stop talking about other kids. 
Oh, thats not even all. My dad said so much more which was what really pissed me off cause it was so bloody contradicting and makes no sense..
He accused me of being in like with this guy..name him Z.T. Cause i so forbid wanted to help him since he has no family here.! But of course it seems like i like him from m dad's POV. but he said it all pissed off...and i got so mad.. what the heck? i cant be friends with a guy. A guy they wouldn't mind since it so prefectly fit in their category.!
Z.T is Paki, good looking, tall, charmed my mom, fun, funny, smooth, flirtatious and everything i would want except he is a player. and i know i make it seem like i do like him but he is the kind that i would when i am thinking about getting married.! Right now, him being a player is him enjoying his age and i dont want to get into anything with a player. He is the kind after all his fun will settle down. 
He is the kind i would want to settle down with later in life.
but right now, i have no feelings for him or anything like that cause he is a player...catch my drift?
Moving on, my dad knows somewhat of this. and i guess he is not wrong for thinking so. but still u have no right to accuse me of it.. and then say that if he was ur boyfriend and u told me, u could hang out with him. or in some sort of dating, u'd want to get more into a relationship with him..then go ahead and hang with him.?????? HELLO? When was being friends with a guy such a crime and dating NOT?
thats pretty cool of him..but he told me if i am not interested, dont be friends with unnecessary guys.!!!
So then, i fought back saying all my other guy friends, the ones shorteer than me or so..u never minded?
HE BASCIALLY THEN TOLD ME NOT TO BE FRIENDS WITH GOOD LOOKING GUYS!!!!
omg..
whats up with that?
i was fuming after thatt.. every question he asked me after that i related it to Z.T and try to piss him off..
didnt work.!
Parents. They know how to push our buttons.


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